How NOT to handle individual growth in relationships
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How NOT to handle individual growth in relationships

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Personal growth should bring a relationship forward. But in many Nigerian relationships, one person's growth quietly gets treated as a betrayal. This episode examines what actually happens when one partner starts therapy, earns more, sets boundaries, and stops shrinking — and the other person calls it a problem.
Drawing on family systems theory, attachment psychology, and the specific cultural conditioning that shapes how Nigerians respond to growth in men versus women, SB Crux breaks down the difference between a partner who is uncomfortable and a partner who is incompatible. One is a conversation. The other is a sign to leave.
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